Fresh off a highly publicized divorce, Porsha Williams is embracing a more fluid, intentional approach to dating and fans are paying attention.
In a candid conversation with Carlos King, the “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star opened up about her evolving views on love, her current relationship and why she’s no longer interested in fitting into anyone else’s box.
‘Porsha-Sexual’: Redefining the Label
Forget traditional labels because Williams is creating her own.
When asked how she identifies, she playfully described herself as “Porsha-sexual.” She even joked that she could be considered “Sway-sexual,” referencing her partner, Patrice ‘Sway’ McKinney. The message was clear: she’s not interested in limiting herself to a specific category.
Williams shared that she has always been attracted to women, but never felt the need to define that attraction in rigid terms. While she respects labels like bisexual or lesbian, she doesn’t feel they fully capture her experience.
Instead, she’s choosing to explore who she is—without pressure.
A “Soft” Love That Feels Different
This relationship, she says, feels unlike anything she’s experienced before.
Describing her connection with McKinney as “very soft,” Williams emphasized the sense of comfort and emotional safety she’s found. It’s a dynamic where she feels seen and understood, without the need to constantly explain herself.
She also spoke about the balance of feminine and masculine energy in her partner, something she finds both grounding and empowering. That duality, she explained, adds depth to their bond and has helped her better understand what she wants in a relationship.
Porsha Williams is Changing it Up: ‘Gone is The Three-Month Rule’
If there’s one thing Williams is doing differently this time, it’s pacing.
Known in the past for moving quickly in relationships, she admitted she’s now taking a much more intentional approach. Gone is the self-imposed “three-month rule” for serious milestones. Instead, she’s focusing on building something steady and real.
That shift comes from experience and a desire to protect her peace.
From Instagram to Real Life
Their love story actually began years ago.
Williams and McKinney first connected on Instagram nearly a decade ago, exchanging casual interactions before eventually losing touch. When Williams later came across McKinney’s new page, she felt drawn to her energy without even realizing it was the same person.
A few direct messages later, the two met up, instantly clicking during a casual outing that included Williams’ sister. Their connection only deepened from there, with shared holidays and family time solidifying their bond.
Who is Sway McKinney?
Beyond their relationship, McKinney is a force in her own right.
She’s the founder of a successful salon suite brand and a respected entrepreneur in both the beauty and real estate spaces. With a background as a master barber and a reputation for mentoring thousands of aspiring business owners, she brings ambition and drive to everything she does.
Living In The Moment
As for critics who question whether this is just a phase, Williams isn’t fazed.
She’s focused on living authentically, embracing where she is right now rather than trying to define where she’ll be later. For her, love isn’t about labels, it’s about connection.
And in this era, she’s choosing softness, growth and freedom above all else.
