As tributes continue to pour in following the death of actor James “PJ” Ransone, his wife, Jamie McPhee, is sharing a deeply personal memory from the weeks before his passing. Ransone, 46, passed away on December 19, 2025.
In an emotional message, McPhee revealed a vulnerable conversation in which Ransone reflected on love, regret, and humanity, words that now carry profound weight. The moment has taken on new meaning as McPhee grieves her husband’s loss while raising their two young children and finding ways to move forward.
James Ransone Told His Wife, ‘I Actually Love Everyone’
On December 23, McPhee revealed a powerful exchange from the weeks before Ransone’s death, recalling a moment of emotional honesty after months of reflection.
“In the weeks before you left us, after months of telling me nearly every regret you’d ever carried, you burst into tears and said: ‘Babe, you know the most [expletive]-up thing of all? I actually love everyone.’”
She ended the message with words that resonated deeply. “Well, babe, it turns out that despite all of it, everyone actually loves you, too.”
A Family Navigating Grief in Public
GettyIn the days following Ransone’s death, McPhee shared a vulnerable message about continuing forward for the sake of their children, Jack, 6, and Violet, 4.
She described taking them to the Glendale Mall after a day at the park.
“Today I took our kids with my angel Kristen to the Glendale Mall. They wanted ice cream after the park. Violet picked out a pink backpack. Jack made me buy and then build things at the Lego store.”
She reflected on how grief and everyday life now coexist.
“For the first time in my life, it was clear that people recognized me. I heard someone behind me in the food court say, ‘ask her’ But they didn’t. And thank you for not. I was with my kids.”
Jamie McPhee: ‘You Never Really Know What People Are Going Through’
GettyMcPhee later shared a realization that came from a conversation with a friend. “It makes you realize you never really know what people are going through,” she wrote.
“Because in many moments we looked… happy. Normal. Laughing. Smiling. How? Not because we aren’t grieving. We are. But because I have two beautiful, incredible children who force me daily to see all the love and all the light that still exists inside of this.”
She later posted a tribute photo of the couple embracing and thanked Ransone for giving her “the greatest gifts,” naming him and their children. “We are forever,” she wrote.
James Ransone’s Death & Legacy
According to the BBC, the Los Angeles County Medical Examiner’s Office indicated his death was determined to be a suicide by hanging.
A widely respected character actor, Ransone was known for his work on “The Wire” and films including “Sinister,” “The Black Phone” and “It: Chapter Two.”
Over the years, he collaborated with acclaimed filmmakers such as John Waters, Spike Lee, and Sean Baker, earning a reputation for performances marked by emotional depth, intensity, and vulnerability.
As tributes continue to emerge, McPhee’s words stand out for their honesty, offering a deeply personal reflection on love, grief, and resilience. Through her message, she honors a man remembered not only for his work, but for the humanity and compassion he carried with him until the end.
If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, dial 988 to reach the toll-free Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. It’s available 24 hours a day, seven days a week (dial 888-628-9454 for assistance in Spanish). You can also speak with a trained crisis counselor anytime by texting HOME to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line.
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