Kate Vazquez, a popular Orlando-based influencer formerly known on TikTok as “ItsNoahsMommy” in honor of her late son, is bravely and positively looking ahead to her new chapter after stunning her followers with the news that she and her husband are headed for a divorce after conquering grief, child loss, and fertility struggles for years together on social media.
Kate apparently did not see the split coming, as she told one fan “I’m shocked with all of you lol” after they commented, “Did I miss a chapter…I’m at a loss.” However, she’s keeping her head up, telling another follower, “I’m great!” According to more comments from her viewers, she originally used a hashtag to indicate her husband had cheated, but then decided not to publicly talk in detail about the split.
Kate, who now goes by “LivingWith.Kate,” rose to prominence on TikTok and gained a following of almost half a million while documenting her journey with child loss after the sudden passing of her 7-month-old son in December 2022. She revealed he stopped breathing in his sleep one night, and said in a now-deleted YouTube video that it was later discovered he had cerebral and pulmonary oedema. Prior to that, she shared her experiences with several pregnancy losses. She and her husband Xavier welcomed another baby son in April 2024.
In recent months, Kate has switched her content to focus more on lifestyle vlogs and her job working on the social media team at her church. She is especially known for her morning routines making coffee and avocado toast.
TikTok Influencer ‘LivingWith.Kate’ Stays Strong Amid Divorce Announcement
Kate announced her upcoming divorce to her TikTok followers by sharing a video where she lip-synched along to a song which contains the lyrics, “Fell on my knees, talked to Jesus about you. Like, how’d you walk away from me? Didn’t wanna wait for me. You had to cut the heart off my sleeve.” She used the hashtag #divorce, making it clear her marriage is over.
She added a caption emphasizing her faith which read, “I think sometimes God removes people from our lives for us, because He knows no matter what they’ve said or done, we don’t have it in our hearts to walk away ourselves. No matter how clearly we might hear God’s voice saying to let go, He knows whether we can do it or not, and He is so loving to make it happen for us, because He has better plans. Lord, I can’t wait to see what you’re going to do with me!”
Kate Celebrated Her New Chapter With a Stunning Hair Transformation & Dropped Hints About What Happened
After the TikTok where she announced her divorce in the caption, Kate posted another video showing off her freshly bobbed hair and declared she is “starting over and never looking back.”
In the comment section, she “liked” a comment written by a follower which read, “Girl after everything and he still stepped out on you guys!? You’ll do just fine alone! I’ve seen you since Noah and God is definitely with you always.” The comment referenced Kate’s first son who she explained passed away one night in his sleep just before his first Christmas.
She declared, “I’m great!” when another follower asked if she was okay regarding her breakup. Someone else commented, “Proof that nobody knows what happens behind closed doors in a relationship…at least you’re glowing!” Kate replied, “Yup! Not even those in the relationship sometimes.”
