Losing someone who has been both a friend and a part of your life story can be deeply heartbreaking. Tori Spelling is remembering Patrick Muldoon with a deeply personal tribute following his death on April 19 at the age of 57.
GettyMuldoon’s passing was confirmed by his manager to Variety, with Deadline reporting that it followed a heart attack.
Two days after his devastating death, Spelling reflected on the weight of the loss, sharing how difficult it has been to process and come to terms with his passing.
Tori Spelling Opens Up About Grief in Emotional Tribute
In her message, Spelling shared how difficult it was to find the words, describing the moment as one she was not ready to face.
“This post took me a couple days. I wasn’t ready to write because then it felt real. And, this shouldn’t be real,” she wrote.
“Like every other girl in the world, I crushed on his character, Austin, from Days of Our Lives. Not sure I ever disclosed that to him. What I met and ultimately fell in love w/ was not just a beautiful on the outside creature but the most beautiful soul.”
Her words reflected both the shock of the loss and the deep admiration she carried for Muldoon, remembering not just his presence on screen but the person she came to know off it.
A Relationship That Grew Into a Lasting Friendship
Spelling and Muldoon dated in the 1990s and later remained close friends, a bond that continued well beyond their romantic relationship.
She described him as someone who brought joy and warmth to those around him.
“[Patrick] was multi-talented. Passionate about everything he did. And, he had a knack for making others smile & brought absolute joy to everyone that was blessed to be in his orbit. A true gift,” she continued.
“We shared a love of Broncos, guitars, goofing off, playing tag, and Grease! Loved to belt out Grease. I was Sandy to his Danny! That’s us singing & dancing in 1st pic! 1995 my 22nd birthday.”
‘He Was Special and One of a Kind’
Spelling also shared how Muldoon always showed up for the people he loved, especially during moments that mattered most.
“He always showed up. And, he was a true hype man 4 those he cared about. He was a huge part of my formative 20’s. We went on to be good friends! Still laughing & always caring,” she wrote. “Decades later, I found him to be such a true friend/hype man when I was going through my divorce. He would call and check on me and send me the worst jokes to make me laugh. He loved it when I rolled my eyes. Now I miss those stupid jokes.”
Looking back on their bond, she described it as something rare and deeply personal, built on humor, understanding, and shared memories.
“He was special and one of a kind. The kindest, most caring human w/ raddest weird sense of humor,” she added, before continuing, “We got each other! Laughed a lot! I laughed w/him and at him, and he loved it. We called each other F—face 😂. That was us!”
Tributes Continue From Friends and Loved Ones
Muldoon’s sudden and shocking passing has been met with an outpouring of love from those who knew him, highlighting the deep connections he built over the years.
Denise Richards, who shared a long and meaningful bond with him, described herself as “deeply heartbroken & devastated,” calling him “my best friend & my family.”
“We met in our first acting class,” she shared.
“I was 19 never had an acting job and you were 21 a student at USC doing a recurring role on who’s the boss. And here we are. 36 years later. My whole adult life & I don’t know it without you.” She added, “The friendship, love, support, respect & loyalty we had was unconditional and rare.”
Her daughter, Lola Sheen, also honored him, reflecting on the role he played in her life growing up and the warmth he brought into their family’s world.
Over the years, Muldoon became a familiar presence on television, remembered for his role as Austin Reed on “Days of Our Lives” from 1992 to 1995, and for his portrayal of Richard Hart on “Melrose Place,” where he appeared for three seasons until 1996.
His passing has left the industry in shock and brought a quiet heaviness to those who knew him and to fans who felt his warmth over the years.
