Over the years, several of Taylor Swift’s friends have reportedly been linked to or even dated some of her famous exes. While that scenario could easily lead to awkward tension, it hasn’t always spelled out drama.
Instead, the former “The Voice” mentor and her pals have managed to keep things mature and maintain their friendship despite their shared romantic history. Check out which exes Swift shares with one of her friends in the list below.
1. Zoe Kravitz
GettyTaylor Swift’s pal, Zoe Kravitz, is currently dating and reportedly engaged to Harry Styles.
The One Direction star and Swift dated for a few months in late 2012 into the start of 2013. It is believed that there’s no bad blood between the exes.
Swift and Kravitz have been good friends since 2016, and grew even closer after quarantining together in London during the pandemic in 2020.
At one point, Kravitz and her mom, Lisa Bonet, stayed at Swift’s Beverly Hills home for two weeks during the deadly California wildfires.
2. Selena Gomez
GettyTaylor Swift and Selena Gomez have been best friends since 2008. In 2009, Gomez dated “Twilight” star Taylor Lautner for a few months.
That same year, Swift and Lautner became a couple after working together on “Valentine’s Day.” By December, Swift and Lautner parted ways.
Despite briefly dating the same man, Swift and Gomez’s friendship wasn’t affected at all. In fact, the two have only grown closer over the years, becoming one of the most enduring friendships in the music industry.
3. Sophie Turner
GettyTaylor Swift got romantically involved with Joe Jonas in the summer of 2008.
However, the two ended their relationship after a few months, with Swift later revealing Jonas broke up with her over the phone in 25 seconds.
Fast forward to 2017, Jonas started dating Swift’s friend, Sophie Turner. The couple went on to marry in 2019 and welcomed two children before ultimately divorcing in 2023.
Despite the history, Swift and Turner’s friendship only grew stronger. In a May 2024 interview with Vogue, Turner called Swift a “hero” for letting her and her daughters live in her New York apartment following her split from Jonas.
4. Cara Delevingne
GettyAnother friend of Taylor Swift who was linked to her ex, Harry Styles, is Cara Delevingne.
The pair were rumored to be an item in 2013, though there has never been any official confirmation of a romance.
Swift and Delevingne have been friends for nearly a decade. In the past, the model revealed that she and the singer lived together at one point, according to Variety.
5. Gigi Hadid
GettyNext on the list is Gigi Hadid. Both the model and Taylor Swift dated Joe Jonas at one point.
As mentioned above, Swift dated Jonas in 2008. Meanwhile, Hadid briefly dated him in 2015.
Today, Hadid remains Swift’s close friend. The supermodel is even rumored to be one of Swift’s A-list bridesmaids.
Katy Perry
GettyAlthough Taylor Swift and Katy Perry had a years-long feud, the two eventually buried the hatchet and became friends.
Swift and Perry both dated John Mayer. Swift and Mayer were together for a few months in 2009 to 2010. Meanwhile, the “Your Body Is a Wonderland” singer later dated Perry for three years, from 2012 to 2015.



