Ellen Pompeo’s former “Grey’s Anatomy” co-star Eric Dane reportedly called her back 30 seconds after she reached out following his ALS diagnosis. The brief phone call highlighted the enduring friendship between the actors and Dane’s resilience in facing the progressive neurological disease, according to People.
Pompeo Praises Longtime Friend and Former Co-Star
People reports that Pompeo, 56, shared a pre-recorded message for Dane, 53, at the ALS Network Champions for Cures & Care Gala, where he was honored for his advocacy after publicly revealing his diagnosis in April 2025. Pompeo reportedly described Dane’s quick response as a meaningful reminder of their close bond.
According to People, Pompeo said she reached out to Dane and his phone “rang 30 seconds later.” She reportedly told him, “Whatever you need, however I can help. I love you.” She also added, “I’m really proud of you,” and “I love you so much, and I am honored to get to speak about you today.”
Dane, who played Mark “McSteamy” Sloan on “Grey’s Anatomy,” has received widespread support from former cast members and fans since announcing his diagnosis. People highlighted Pompeo’s remarks on their long-standing friendship and mutual respect.
Support From Cast and Colleagues
Several of Dane’s former co-stars have publicly supported him during his ALS battle. Us Weekly reports that Patrick Dempsey praised Dane for his courage and advocacy work. Kate Walsh, who played Dr. Addison Montgomery on the series, called Dane’s journey “heartbreaking” and said she has sent him her support and prayers, according to People.
Other “Grey’s Anatomy” alumni, including James Pickens Jr., Chandra Wilson, and Kim Raver, have shared well-wishes and memories of working with Dane. Us Weekly noted that the cast continues to emphasize their sense of family and admiration for Dane’s strength.
Life after ‘Grey’s Anatomy’
Pompeo joined “Grey’s Anatomy” in 2005 as Meredith Grey, while Dane joined the show’s second season. People reports that the actors quickly developed strong on-screen chemistry and a lasting off-screen friendship.
ALS is a progressive neurological disorder that affects motor neurons, gradually limiting mobility. Since announcing his diagnosis, Dane has shared updates about the illness’s impact on his daily life and has advocated for ALS awareness and research. People reported that Pompeo praised him for turning a personal struggle into an opportunity to help others.
For fans, the friendship between Pompeo and Dane underscores the bonds formed on set. What started as a fictional storyline now mirrors real-life resilience, support, and loyalty.



