Bruce Willis and Demi Moore’s daughter, Rumer Willis, is honoring James Van Der Beek following his tragic passing at 48. After Kimberly Van Der Beek shared the heartbreaking news of her husband’s death, Willis posted an emotional message reflecting on their bond and her admiration for him.
Rumer Pays Tribute To Her ‘Big Brother’
GettyRumer’s message indicates that she was friends with both James and his wife, Kimberly.
“My dear, wonderful friends, I love you all. I am keeping you all in my heart. I’m so lucky to have had you in my life for so long. James set the bar as a husband and a father and big brother (to me) I am so grateful to have witnessed your love and respect and care for each other. Sending all the love and light to you all.”
In her tribute, Willis described Van Der Beek as someone who led with love and devotion.
She referred to him as a “big brother,” sharing how deeply she valued the years they spent in each other’s lives.
Her words reflected both grief and gratitude as she acknowledged the example he set within his family.
Although the full extent of their friendship is not publicly known, Rumer Willis and James Van Der Beek were connected through “Dancing With the Stars,” where both became part of the show’s close-knit alumni community in different seasons.
Rumer won Season 20 in 2015 with professional partner Valentin Chmerkovskiy. Van Der Beek later competed in Season 28 in 2019 alongside Emma Slater, further tying him to the DWTS family.
Rumer Willis Shares GoFundMe Link to Support James Van Der Beek’s Family
GettyRumer Willis also stepped in to support the Van Der Beek family during their time of grief. Sharing Kimberly’s announcement about James’ passing to her Instagram Story, Rumer added a heartfelt plea for help.
She posted a link titled “GoFundMe for my friends” and wrote, “If you can donate, please send whatever you can to help my friends.” Her message not only honored James’ memory but also encouraged her followers to offer tangible support to his wife and children.
James Van Der Beek’s Wife Kimberly Launches Fundraiser
The actor passed away after a brave battle with stage 3 colorectal cancer. His wife, Kimberly Van Der Beek, confirmed the heartbreaking news in a statement shared on Instagram.
“Our beloved James David Van Der Beek passed peacefully this morning,” Kimberly wrote.
“He met his final days with courage, faith, and grace. There is much to share regarding his wishes, love for humanity, and the sacredness of time. Those days will come. For now, we ask for peaceful privacy as we grieve our loving husband, father, son, brother, and friend.”
His family also created a fundraiser describing Van Der Beek as a devoted husband, father and friend whose presence deeply impacted those around him.
The message explains that after a long and courageous fight against cancer, he died on February 11, 2026, leaving behind Kimberly and their six children.
The fundraiser notes that throughout his illness, the family faced intense emotional strain along with significant financial challenges as they focused on his treatment and care.
Now, as Kimberly and the children look ahead, they are working to remain in their home and provide stability, including ensuring the children can continue their education.
According to the fundraiser, donations will help cover essential living expenses, outstanding bills, and school costs. The family added that every contribution, no matter the size, will help provide security and hope as they begin to rebuild their lives.
