“Real Housewives of Salt Lake City” star Lisa Barlow spoke out against her only ally Heather Gay after she tried to weigh in on the Lisa versus Angie Katsanevas feud that has been escalating throughout season 6.
Lisa & Heather’s Complicated Past
Though Heather and Lisa were close at the start of season 6, the two housewives have had their differences in the past. At the “RHOSLC” season 2 reunion, they went back and forth over Lisa texting Heather that she hoped her father was doing well. Heather claimed that Lisa already knew that her father had passed away at the time.
Watch a clip from season 4, episode 7 where Lisa and Heather get into a heated argument over Mormonism.
In an appearance on “Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen,” Lisa calls out Heather for being “judgy.”
In another episode of “WWHL,” during “Which Way Do You Sway,” Heather thought Lisa had more to answer for at the reunion than Angie.
During their clash on season 6, episode 6, a flashback to the first season of “RHOSLC” reminded viewers of their drama, which inspired the title of Heather’s 2024 memoir, “Good Time Girl.”
Lisa Burns Bridges With Heather
Following an explosive argument at Whitney Rose‘s “Telepathic Tasting” lunch in episode 5, Lisa met Heather for shopping. While Lisa was venting about Angie’s “nasty digs,” Lisa made several of her own, prompting Heather to point out her hypocrisy.
“What you’re saying that you hate about Angie is exactly what you did,” Heather said. “How is what you’re doing different?”
Lisa insisted she didn’t stoop as low as Angie did, Heather disagreed.
“There’s a reason that no one ever rides hard for you,” Heather said. “I think it’s because they’ve all been burned by you. And everyone at that table has a history with you where you have gone low…You cannot sit here and expect me to let you diss her and say that she does all these horrible things and not look at you and say you do too. What you two are doing has no end point.”
“Why can [Angie] start it and then no one’s allowed to say anything back to her?” Lisa asked.
During her confessional, Lisa started in on Heather. “Oh my gosh, the nerve of her to say this right now,” Lisa said to one of the producers. “It’s like, Heather, are you…blind and deaf? Because, clearly, you don’t see all the times everybody’s coming for me non-stop, and it started with you.”
“Like, you know how much I put up with with Heather?” Lisa continued in her confessional. Then she brought up Heather’s memoir. ” And I’m glad I could give your book a title.”
Heather tried to explain, “we all feel bullied a little bit by that stuff. You’re a risky…friend.”
But Lisa didn’t agree. “I don’t feel like I am, and I’m sick of being labeled that way,” she said. “I don’t feel bad about it. I think [Angie] needs to take accountability.”
To conclude their argument, Heather tried to stay positive by bringing up the cast yachting trip to Canouan with the “Below Deck Down Under” crew. “I’m trying to move forward with you right now, and I’m hoping this trip will help bring us together,” Heather said. “But, like, until you really clear it up or change, it’s never gonna go away.”
Where Does Heather Stand With Lisa Now?
Heather opened up to Meredith Marks after her rocky friendship with Lisa.
“There’s a part of me that felt like I wasn’t getting through at all,” Heather said. “I love Lisa and I love our friendship and I wanna defend her, but, like, I also don’t want to be a fool ’cause I was not Lisa’s friend for four years… And so, this is the first time I’m kind of seeing how she pulls ya in and then, like, kind of slings the mud.”
Meredith asked Heather why she let her off the hook after Whitney’s wine tasting event.
“I don’t wanna be in a friendship with Lisa where I have to keep her at an arm’s length or watch my back or wonder if she’s only, like, not digging up dirt on me because she’s not mad at me right now,” Heather said. “Like, I just don’t want to be in a friendship like that.”




I was on Heather’s side until she met with Meredith and tried to convince her to turn against Lisa. If Meredith & Lisa are getting along right now, Heather should stay out of it. They all have done and said nasty things to each other — Lisa hasn’t cornered the market on that.
Lisa needs to go, she shouldn’t be on the show anymore. She’s nasty, vile, a hypocrite, and seems to think she can do no wrong. Even her own husband said she’s apparently the only perfect one. I wouldn’t be surprised if John divorces her or has an affair.
I agree. I sometimes want to just skip watching show bc I’ll have to listen to Lisa’s screeching & screaming sooo loud, it gives me a headache. She shd be off show. She is & always goes so low. She’s not a true friend! I used to like her but now she’s the one I like least. Ugh.
Lisa is a mean girl and thinks that she does no wrong, she does a lot of wrong and I feel bad for her husband he has to put up with her snobbish ways
Lisa needs to be given the boot. She contributes nothing yo the show. I am sick of her screaming and belittling of everyone. I feel bad for her husband. He deserves a lot better than her. Divorce/affair is on the horizon.
Lisa needs to go! I cannot stand to hear her open her mouth anymore. She doesn’t speak to anyone in a normal tone, she screeches! She has a huge mouth! It’s getting to be too much. Someone needs to bring her down a notch or two.